Just to tell you a little about myself. I am a former High School Teacher and Karate and selfdefense instructor. I am Very financial stable through real estate and very mental and physically strong. I am not a vain person but very self confident and have always been a leader not a follower. My pictures are very current and when you meet me you know that is the same person in the picture no surprises.I love all kinds of music from 70's-90's.love to go dancing.I don't consider rap as music but that is just my opinion.I have been into martial arts and boxing most of my life and did very well while I was competing and I current have a large following of private students who want to get into shape and learn how to protect themselves. Would love to find a good honest lady to start seeing and going places and doing things together with. Hoping that a good friendship will turn out to be a very close love relationship someday. Not looking for a lust relationship which is always doomed for failure. I have learn through experience not to take things to fast." I am looking for a long term relationship only so you ladies who have been e-mailing me digging for gold. wanting a one nighter, and wanting to cheat on your husband with someone, I am not your man. I have great respect in myself as a man and believe in and practice the Ten Commandments.So far I have been dissapointed in all the replies I have received for all the wrong reasons.I would have thought when people are in their 40's would be looking for a lifetime love instead of just a "F--K Buddy", Call me old fashion but I am not into this new age of having no morals or values or respect in oneself or others. Anyway If there is one good honest average looking lady out there who has some morals and values and is looking for a long term relationship and is not married please contact me.Thank you very much.

. Not looking for a date were there is pressure just a public place to meet and hang out and maybe have coffee,dinner and good conversation.I even like to meet for a picnic in a park.I will pick up the chicken.lol If we don't hit it off we can have a great friendship. I would rather love a friend for life than love a lover for a day.