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filwilfulfilu : I'll write metaphysical poetry 4my Muse
City
Cambridge Uk
Sign
Leo
Height
6' 3" (191 cm)
Age
39 year old Man
Smoker?
Occasionally
Ethnicity
Caucasian with Brown hair
Body Type
Thin
Religion
Other Religion
(all bnw pics done in one session 2006)
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I am Seeking a
Woman
For
Hang Out

Do you drink?
Socially
Marital Status
Single
Profession
Music, writer, teach guitar, teach ESOL
Smarts
N/A
Do you want children?
Undecided/Open
Do you do drugs?
No
Do you have children?
No
Do you have a car?
No
 
Interests
Musicnaturepoetry
metaphysicsDiamanda GalasMiles Davis
Star TrekIggy Popenergy healing
films and nature docsThe MatrixKing Crimson
The WhoCarl Jungdeath is not the end- the biggest mistake you can make is being born in the first place
ZenBeatlesLed Zeppelin
BowieMahavishnu OrchestraRolling Stones
YesFrank ZappaRush
Van Der Graff GeneratorThe KillersJimi Hendrix
SantanalanguagesHerman Hesse
altered states of conciousnessI ChingX Box
Indian music as in virtuoso classical not bollywoodastrologyastronomy
sarcasmmaking dinner 4 belovedsdry laconic wit
making collageswriting and receiving long love-letterslucid dream reality
tornadoeswhirlpoolstsunamis
why are we hereprehistoric mammals
About Me
What are we? What is our purpose? What is life? Have you ever looked around with dropped jaw at so many forms of life around you and wondered what's going on & love the way Life seeks to express itself in so much diversity? If this is too heavy 4 u then you should be on someone elses profile looking for "Mr.Right"(he doesn't exist - all relationships require compromise and negotiation).
The Universe is made up out of laughter (on at least one level of reality). Life is sooooooo sh*t you just HAVE to laugh!NO self-pity...like the Buddhists just acknowledge that Life is Suffering. It doesn't mean wallow in it. I try not to. I've been thru hell and come out the other side. Now laughing. It's called the "Cosmic Joke".
I don't care if your intellect is way up there or way down there. If you are emotionally intelligent enough not to judge me, and if there is warmth in your heart and some goodness in your soul - that will always be appreciated so much more than a contest of intellect.
Usually I am happy-go-lucky(believe it) and easy-going - if u see me frowning it's not necessarily cos i'm p****d off - i'm just having a worry about something - it'll pass.Hmm...can be moody though, I admit. I am chameleon in the extreme so aside from enjoying heavy talks about the Universe I also enjoy a good silly random banter with someone capable of manifesting and expressing more than just one "social-face" personality. Play-acting I guess you could call it.
I dunno if I want to leap straight into a full-blown relationship at the moment but God,(Buddha, Zen Void of the Universe, whatever it is) I could do with some good thoughtful fun company...maybe some flirty online chat, maybe a date with no expectations, leading to wot?...dunno. Feel free to take the initiative. I enjoy flirty internet chat - on the other hand if something in your profile simply grabs my interest or appeals to my silly side then on all these counts I like to get in touch - not always with expectations of anything else. I like to put thought and/or humour into my messages and like getting mail so it goes without saying that I do respond to messages.
Ladies if you want a career guy with a fat wallet, look elsewhere. There's big money on the horizon but it aint happenin yet. However, if you want a poetic graceful sometimes silly impulsive thoughtful insightful and protective warm guy...sensitive guy needs sensitive companion(sensitive means awareness of companion's and own emotional state and semi-concious impulses and motivations and knowing how to behave accordingly - it doesn't mean "touchy and unable to take a joke or any helpful criticism")
Was a seriously angst-ridden teen until I became..well..20..and discovered the wonderful world of non-stop guilt-free body exploration with a suitably open-minded, kind-hearted, loyal young lady. I'm a Leo,see? You think we're all Kings of the Zodiac jungle? No...we're pusscats...
Tireless lover with lots to give! Very good kisser - so I have been told. Maybe not so hot when it comes to full-on sex - I am fairly emotionally fragile and don't like rough stuff - hammering away like a stud - but I do have my moments(heh heh). I like to make up for this by being a little bit extra generous with my pre-coital attentions(hehe - and that's enough of that - I want this profile tasteful).
Until someone nearly cut my finger off i was a keen master guitarist playing classical, rock, fusion-jazz, folk and trying to learn complicated Indian scales. Now I just have to settle 4 a little piano, some drums and am still fairly hot on bass despite finger that won't bend properly. It really sucks...I dedicated my life to collecting all kinds of guitars - now I can't play them properly until my finger works again. Have now sold guitars and am concentrating on writing.
Ummm...very tall, long feet, fabulous-looking Hammer Horror style, cutting wit, surreal viewpoint, I walk like the wind and look like thunder - when I step into town all the young women fall like flies at my feet - it scares me and so I have to retreat, and so I end up on Plentyoffish instead.
You may need a strong ego and good sense of self to survive THIS cat.
Usually I will do anything and everything I can to bolster your self-esteem and make you feel like mmm!...most wonderful beloved woman in this world...but if I'm having one of my occasional off-days and you suddenly no longer feel like the most fabulously adored Goddess and Muse most deserving of most gorgeous male Leo creative God that I am...and I start nagging at you and getting petulant over stupid little things - just give me a kick up the ass and tell me you're gonna LEAVE ME if I don't watch it...I'll be grovelling at your feet and purring in your lap in no time.
Self-confident, not arrogant in the usual negative sense - sure I'm arrogant - my ego has expanded to the point where it merges with the outer fabric of the Intelligent Universe itself - and becomes permeable(it lets the light in) - so it's ok. My humour is usually benign on an abstract, laterally-thinking level of word-play..but I can get shockingly sarcastic when provoked. And of course I can be b***y about people but in a dryly witty and thought-provoking way, not hateful...who needs a poison drip - not me. There's enough hate in this world as it is.
Attention-seeking drop-down gorgeous Leo with tall, dark and devilishly handsome features needs Aquarius lady or fellow-fire-sign female companion. I don't bite!(but I DO lick...)
My taste in music? It's in the "interests" box...I am a bit of a music snob and can only just tolerate chart music, dance and this horrible "emo-rock" thing...reggae doesn't do much for me either...I like listening to musicians who take risks and improvise...anything a bit different and dangerous and inspired.
I can watch movie after movie when I'm in a lazy,comfort-oriented mood...and love watching Nature documentaries...anything that inspires me...I am an INSPIRED person...likes to inspire and be inspired.
This profile-writing thing is a larf isn't it. Anybody taking the blatant self-glorification seriously fails to recognise the same confidence issues and basic lack of self-esteem that plagues most of us.Btw...I don't understand seduction-games so if u disappear on me I won't necessarily take it as a hint to chase after. Most likely I'll assume ur not interested.
I can larf at myself. You can laugh at all this ego-mast**b*tion too if you like. How can I write fully about me me me, all my existential headf**k and spiritual shenanigans without coming across like a pretentious w****r? Difficult - so I take the path of least resistance and don't even try. Here I am...ego, warts & all...

First Date
Still here?:-) Am fascinated by what most people would call "coincidence" - I read Carl Jung and his ideas on the subconcious, synchronicity and the spirit. I believe in Eternal Life perhaps reincarnation perhaps something even more complicated than simply migrating from one body to another. I practise altered states of dreaming and have(too rarely)experienced contact with my energy flow in dream-state. I believe that this energy body can be made stronger in lucid dream-state with a positive overflow effect upon our "waking lives". I am also interested in more ordinary dreams in a Jungian kind of way - mostly for their symbolic content but also of course for their sheer weirdness. I know the difference between a good book on dreams(any book that encourages the development and integration of the fragmented psyche) and one that wants throwin in the bin(dream of a handkerchief and your auntie will become rich etc)

Fascinated by astrology and the idea of subtle influence of celestial energies on our poor addled psyches.

Destiny AND free will !!

I believe that our immediate environment to which we are subliminally connected is sending us information on the subtle-energy-feeling level - we should be constantly experiencing revelations of potential future destiny and receiving insights pertaining to whatever is getting in the way of open clarity. Perhaps the trick is to interpret the Universe around us in the same way we do our dreams - and blur the distinction between waking reality and dream reality. To do this without going mad I think is a code to cracking the mystery of life. To not worry about going "mad" is another key to the mystery. To not judge yourselves as "mad" amd even to discourage such frivolous use of the word itself...

Mhmm... sure I like intelligent and philosophical conversation but gawwwwwd can not go on like that all night - more important to be simple and in touch with emotions and feel free to express anger, sadness, pain as well as all the good stuff... (an almost well-rounded guy with shiny aura)

Education-wise I done my A-levels but by my late teens was so sick of the education system, I didn't bother going to Uni. Focussed on music instead. At one point had my own recording studio set-up. Taught guitar for a while and done some ESOL teaching (teaching non-english speaking people how to speak english). Now at last maybe thinking of going to college and getting a TEFL certificate so I can maybe travel and teach English all over the world.

Musicians and music lovers into my taste in music...where are youuu?

Writers and other creative spirits also welcome!

Brave souls who want to learn music and be creative are welcomed and loved too!img src=smil

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