UPDATE:After reading many many profile's it has dawned on me that if I want to get a date on this online site I need to either get a Harley or a boat, or I can be a real stud and have both lol, kinda humorous nobody seems to care if you a good person however after realizing this I'm still gonna give this another chance, simply looking for a honest person that I enjoy being around,whether people will admit it or not looks are what first catch your attention but I think chemistry is alot more important, I live in the country and farm for a living and have almost no chance of simply running into a lady so you can understand why I'm on here, I'm only 15 min from Bloomington but hey thats a college town and just about impossible to meet people my age there. I think its harder to find the person with the right chemistry online than in real life simple because you spend alot of time trading emails before you finally meet, I dont like being around drama and cant understand why it seems people want and need it, I have been divorced for a long time, both boys are just about or already gone to find their own way, will add more later

one of the advantanges of online dating is you meet people you probably would never meet by chance
one of the disadvantanges of online dating is you dont really know if the person is a jerk until you meet in real life
so I think before you can have a first date you should have a first meeting to see if you have any chemistry or connection at all then plan a date