I am looking for someone to spend the rest of my life with... I have two children and have been married and divorced twice. I am NOT looking for another failed relationship!! I am also not looking for all the games that some like to play when it comes to dating. I want more kids, but won't if they have to grow up without a father like my two have to. I would love to get married again someday, but only if I have no doubts that it will last forever! I work full time and am going to school on top of having both of my kids 24/7 (their father isn't involved) so I don't have much time to get out, but I do enjoy going out occasionally with friends. I would rather stay at home with my kids though. The perfect night for me would be to spend it with my family and after the kids go to bed, cuddle up on the couch with my man and watch a movie... if that sounds boring to you, go ahead and move on to the next profile because that's who I am. It won't change. I am a HUGE animal lover! I have everything from dogs, to cats, to horses, a pony... and the list could go on! Any guy that wants to be with me, has to be an animal lover too. I will never get rid of my animals for anyone! I am not high maintenance and I don't ever ask for much. I have a huge heart and will do anything for anyone to help them out or make them happy, but when it comes to being unfaithful, you might as well just pack your bags and move along! I do not agree with being unfaithful for ANY reason that one might come up with. I have heard probably every excuse known to man as to why my man was unfaithful and I put up with it for way too many years! It is ultimately what ruined both of my marriages. My kids and I deserve so much better than that! I have never and will never be unfaithful to the man in my life and I expect the same in return. I don't think that is too much to ask for and I still can't figure out why so many men (women are guilty too) think that it is!?!

I am pretty sure i've never actually been on a "date" before. Everyone I have ever "dated" I met at a bar or through mutual friends so we always just hung out. With that said, I do not require a fancy dinner at some fancy restaurant. I think people make a huge mistake by trying to be someone they are not,on a first date just to try and impress. It usually ends up making everyone uncomfortable and can ruin what could have been a great thing. I am not so sure that going to a movie is so great since you can't really talk during the movie, but it does take some of the pressure off of you trying to come up with things to say that way... going to a bar and having a drink to help your nerves might be ok, but usually the drunks and loud bar music make it hard to yell loud enough to be heard clearly... there is both good and bad things about pretty much anything you could do on a date. That's why I am ok with pretty much anything!