Who am I?...what are my goals?...and aspirations?...what makes me unique?...what are my hobbies?... my passions?...and my taste in music?...close your eyes...are they closed?...imagine your dream man...do you see him?...is he tall, dark, and handsome?...is he successful??is he a stong?...caring?..genourous?...does he love life and live it to the fullest!...is he always on the go?...is he a world traveler?...does he have a time share condo like the one of me with palm trees and ocean in the background?...does he like long walks on the beach?... is he exciting with a hint of danger?...is he a good man?...is he thoughtful?...always bringing you gifts?...little tokens of love?...are you thinking of him?...are your eyes still closed?...focus on him...imagine him...now wake up and smell the coffee...I ain't him!

We meet, do a strip search on each other, check I D's, say to each other "you don't look like your picture"...and you have gained weight!...stick it out for dinner and go home thinking...what was I thinking?